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    What I've learned this week at the BHC - Nov 28

    Monday, December 10, 2007, 12:28 AM EST [@ the Banyan Center]

    his week, of the many things I've learned, three were salient:

    ONE. The Effectiveness of an Affect Bridge is proportionate to the
    intensity of the affect, and intensity of affect is dependent on 5
    factors:
    1) How much affect the client is carrying
    2) How deep in hypnosis the client is
    3) How complaint he/she is
    4) How willing to experience strong emotions they are
    5) Congruence in hypnotist's voice and tone

    Since we don't have much control over 1, 3 and 4; we really need to
    focus in making sure the client is truly in somnambulism or deeper AND
    we have to be very concious of our voice tone, pitch, tempo and
    intensity, so as to be congruent with what we're saying and in so
    doing facilitate the client's connection to his/her emotions; very
    much like actors do when they're acting their part and are able to
    convey emotions to the audience.

    TWO:  When doing AR, it's always good to remember to get the cognitive
    component of the emotion, as people often missname feelings. One sure
    way to do this is to ALWAYS use the Fav 5:
    1) What's Happening?
    2) What are you Thinking?
    3) What are you Feeling?
    4) How Old are you?
    5) Is that feeling Familiar or New?

    Additionally, it's good to keep the counting of numbers congruent, so
    you'll count backwards to move to the past, forward to move to the
    future AND never lead client (if it's not clear if event is in the
    past or future of the point where you're at, don't use numbers, simply
    do the "touch-touch-touch" thing).

    THREE: When using an Affect Bridge for AR, you build up the feeling in
    the present so as to use it as a bridge to the past BUT when client is
    already in regression, you NEVER build up the feeling there, if you do
    that, you'll be modifying the past and possibly creating false
    memories (you'll be making them experience MORE emotion than they
    actually had back then). If you want to make sure emotion experienced
    is the strongest (for instance, if they're being a little resistant to
    further regress), it's OK to say "When I count from 1 to 3, you'll be
    at the most emotional moment of this event or situation" and then use
    that feeling to regress more (IF feeling is familiar, of course ;-)).

    One last note, affect bridge is useful only when based on Primary
    Emotions, Secondary and Tertiary Emotions (frustration and depression)
    should only be used when that's all that client is able to express.

    That's it for today, remember to read and re-read your scripts until
    they roll off your tongue effortessly and accurately, watch your own
    taped sessions to see what you did right and where you need to improve
    and always review your training material (videos, books, notes)
    related to the client you're going to see... And do your 7th Path
    daily, it'll keep your mind and spirit sharp and ready to take on
    whatever comes your way.

    Until next week,

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